In today's world it seems like nothing ever goes the way it should. The other night I was reading a Cosmo and there was an article about older women stealing younger women men. It's like when they are young, they want older women and when they are old they want younger women... you can't be happy with a person in your own age range? I really don't get how an older women, like one that could be your mom, is attractive. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that older women are ugly, old hags but when the women is twice your age, what is so great about that? In Cosmo it was talking about how guys like how sure older women are and how they have their own things going on and other things like that, but I bet if they tried looking around they could find a girl their own age that is just like that. I get why they go for younger when they are older but it is still gross. Granted there are a few actors that are the same age as my parents and I think they are very sexy, Johnny Depp for one.That doesn't bother me as much as when they go for someone else when they are with someone... WTF! Why can't you just be happy with who you are with? If things aren't working out with that person, then break it off and then find someone else, don't have someone already in mind you want to be with and wreck what you have with your current partner so you can be with that person. The two worse things a person can do is cheat or lie to someone who loves them... they always seem to coincide too hmmmm. People always think that the grass is going to be so much greener on the other side, so they never stop to think about the person they are going to hurt to go find out. So what happens when that grass isn't so green anymore? Will they regret the pain they caused the person who loved them, or will they just not care at all?
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those girls that blames everything on girls because I know there are some real bitches out there who do similar things to guys. Just be happy with the person you are with and don't try to find something better while you are with that person, if you think things aren't going to work out, then break up, be single for awhile, and then find that new relationship. It isn't fair to the person you are with for you to just find someone new and leave them for the new person. "The grass isn't always greener on the other side." "Never leave the one you love for the one you like because they will leave you for the person they love."
Just remember KARMA is a bitch, and it always catches up with you in the end...
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You hit the nail on the head, Meghan! I have always told my friends (and my fiance) "If you aren't happy with your relationship, talk about it with them! If you are that unhappy then just break off the relationship and stop stringing the other person along." I wonder if sometimes people aren't happy so they stray away thinking if it doesn't work out they can just stay with their current significant other. That's such crap! I just hope that you can learn to trust again and find someone that truly deserves you because you are such a wonderful person!
BTW I like your blog! I thought about starting one but I didn't know what to write. I hope you keep writing!
Isn't that true. People are never happy. Period. It's pathetic. Take some drugs and get over it, and leave the bitching to people with real problems.
Or, go find yourself a much older or younger bf/gf. It's cheaper than therapy. Maybe that is why people do it.
But, who am I to talk...my boyfriend is much older than I am. But he was single when I found him.
Idk Meghan, maybe people do it just because they think they'll be happier with themselves.
Maybe they aren't upset with the relationship, but upset with themselves. And in turn, try to find something to distract them from their 'inner unhappiness'.
Anyway, well said. Miss you, bitch.
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